Thursday is the day of email.
“I do stress to all that the window of admission to this fine school is small. My understanding is that the state should've responded to this request 14 days ago at the latest.” Email far beats phone in the mess like this: no cauliflower ear or ring-a-ding tag; a potential paper trail, even if it is electronic; best of all, CCing to loop everyone in.
“Checking in to see if there's any word from Albany of Alex's CRP and where we stand regarding the quick IEP-update meeting this week? Thanks. Let me know there's anything we can do to speed things along.”
This 9:01 a.m. note receives a reply with the speed of the Internet – and not the speed of much else so far in this process: I will be out of the office today. If this is an urgent matter that requires immediate attention, please contact … And a name and number. I call.
“I don’t know if I can help you,” says the voice, “but I’ll check and have someone get back to you.”
Yet another new player in a bad comedy. To review, the residential school we think best for Alex wants him there Monday and can’t hold the spot for long. We think that’s great, the NYC Department of Education thinks that’s great, for all I know President Obama thinks it’s great (I bet he would if he knew Alex). But the state agency that holds the final rubber stamp just won’t slam it down.
“You may want to reach out to the agency director in your region to understand why the CRP approval is being held up,” the school admissions officer emails. “I’m not sure if there is a supervisor at OPWDD that you can reach out to Jeff? Does your attorney have ideas? Keep me updated!”
“Someone has to start screaming at Albany about why the eff no word from them,” Jill writes. “I see many many emails from EVERYONE on this. But Albany is very ... quiet. I can see why no one will release this woman’s name in that agency. She would be dead many times over.”
Alex’s potential school is clean, modern, some buildings on its scenic campus more like a ski lodge than a school. And it’s where, say parents, kids like Alex improve. Few schools like this fetch parents vouching for them. It looks like a place in the greater New York metropolitan area that knows it’s desirable.
Don’t think I’ve ever sent more CCed emails in such a short time. Are u going to call this office? They’ll have someone get back to us. I just got thru to someone here.
Me to our lawyer: “Just making sure the e-mail has brought you sufficiently up to speed in case you need to get involved. Please let me know if you have any questions.
From the lawyer: “Thanks for catching me up on everything, I think I have a pretty good idea as to the status. I’m not sure if having us write a letter will be that effective due the time constraints, however, I am more than happy to make some phone calls.”
Me: “Thanks for the note. I believe that this late time more questioning voices only help. Yes, and many thanks if you can inquire.”
Names on my CC list add up, reminding me of the old ICU emergencies when Alex was a baby in the hospital: He’d stop breathing and everybody and anybody dove on him. Me again, emailing everyone: “Assuming aliens land, the Royals win the Series and OPWDD clears up this glitch on Friday, what's our schedule for Monday? When do you we have to be at the Center and how long should we plan on staying?”
Jill: “What the f are we doing monday?”